If
you are in a relationship and you see these things happening and refuse to talk
you are endangering your relationship as it may be the end of your
relationship.
If you are the type of partner who shies away
from confrontations, you’ll be doing yourself no good by allowing far too many
things go without being addressed.
The following feelings and situations should
not be ignored:
1. When your partner starts to
withdraw
If you find yourselves withdrawing from each
other and the bond is no longer as strong as it was, you should address the
situation.
Choosing not to talk about this is not so good
for your relationship. You won’t have one anymore if you keep up that energy.
If your partner begins to show signs of
distrust, becomes suspicious or starts to do shady stuff, do not pretend like
it is not happening.
Talk about it. Do something about it.
If every single one of your friends and family
see nothing good in him or her, don’t wave it away. All these people can’t be
haters. Maybe there really is something they are seeing that you are not. Maybe
ask questions?
If a partner has never put your needs before
theirs but always looks for
ways to get you to bear inconveniences for
them, do not ignore this.
It is better to try and talk it through,
rather than build resentment towards them.
5. 5. If your partner is suspicious
If they just can’t seem to do right by you
anymore and all you do now is bicker and argue and quarrel, you need to try to
know what changed.
You need to understand what went wrong and how
to make the relationship healthy again.
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